How to Make Up For Emotional Intimacy
In the first part of this series we discussed how you can use sex to try and make up for missing the intimacy in your relationship. In the second part of this series we will discuss how to make up for emotional intimacy.
In part one of this series I discussed the importance of initiating and maintaining emotional intimacy with your partner. This is very important because it is what gives your relationship its strength and it is what keeps it strong. Without emotional intimacy your relationship will start to break down and have problems that you simply cannot resolve on your own.
To illustrate this point, let's look at a scenario where you were previously effective at initiating and maintaining emotional intimacy. Now, let's say you are now out with friends and not around your partner because your focus has shifted from them to the people you are with. What would be the consequences?
You would find yourself struggling to make small talk with your partner about your former interest in him or her. Your partner would probably stop talking to you. When you try to initiate your partner would not feel any need to talk to you. Your partner would then start to drift away from you.
When you try to initiate your partner would then feel like he or she was being rejected. He or she would feel uncomfortable with their lack of control over the situation. This would lead to them feeling more rejected and they would find themselves resenting you for it. These feelings would cause their natural reaction to be one of their worst fears coming true.
You need to understand that having strong emotional intimacy is not just about you spending time thinking about your partner. You also need to spend time with your partner. You also need to support each other through times when the intimacyis lacking.
If you find yourself alone in a room with no one to talk to you, you need to reach out to your partner. You need to begin to feel confident that you can take care of your needs.
Once you begin to realize that your partner knows you very well and they will always be there for you, you will begin to miss them so much. You will find your life will be easier and more fulfilling.
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In part one of this series I discussed the importance of initiating and maintaining emotional intimacy with your partner. This is very important because it is what gives your relationship its strength and it is what keeps it strong. Without emotional intimacy your relationship will start to break down and have problems that you simply cannot resolve on your own.
To illustrate this point, let's look at a scenario where you were previously effective at initiating and maintaining emotional intimacy. Now, let's say you are now out with friends and not around your partner because your focus has shifted from them to the people you are with. What would be the consequences?
You would find yourself struggling to make small talk with your partner about your former interest in him or her. Your partner would probably stop talking to you. When you try to initiate your partner would not feel any need to talk to you. Your partner would then start to drift away from you.
When you try to initiate your partner would then feel like he or she was being rejected. He or she would feel uncomfortable with their lack of control over the situation. This would lead to them feeling more rejected and they would find themselves resenting you for it. These feelings would cause their natural reaction to be one of their worst fears coming true.
You need to understand that having strong emotional intimacy is not just about you spending time thinking about your partner. You also need to spend time with your partner. You also need to support each other through times when the intimacyis lacking.
If you find yourself alone in a room with no one to talk to you, you need to reach out to your partner. You need to begin to feel confident that you can take care of your needs.
Once you begin to realize that your partner knows you very well and they will always be there for you, you will begin to miss them so much. You will find your life will be easier and more fulfilling.
Know more about dry and frizzy hair and get some tips to get rid of dry and frizzy hair.
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